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Feeling Your Way Through Divorce

At Solace Divorce Mediation, we believe divorce is not something to think your way through. It is something you must feel your way through.

Divorce can be one of the darkest experiences of your life. It can be a time filled with stress, fear, grief, uncertainty, and emotional pain. It is within that darkness that also makes divorce a sacred opportunity, an invitation to reconnect with your heart, your truth, and your light. Through the Solace journey, we guide you through the emotional heaviness of divorce with compassion, clarity, and conscious support. 

The Solace journey helps you step out of your head and into your heart. You are gifted a sacred space where the noise, stress, disempowerment, and financial destruction of the courtroom are removed and you are given a space to feel into what is truly best for your children, what feels fair in dividing assets, and what is needed in support and shared expenses.

At Solace, we create agreements that are not only legally sound but also energetically aligned with the vision of your life moving forward. 

Solace offers a heart centered path to resolution, healing and new beginnings. 

95% of divorce cases can be resolved outside of the courtroom. The social programming tells you that you must hire an attorney, fight in court, spend tens or hundreds (sometimes millions) of dollars, hate your spouse, and watch your children suffer. However, NONE of this needs to be true for you.

The truth is that when two people are willing to empower themselves as the absolute BEST authorities to determine what is in the best interest of their children and what is fair and equitable for all financial issues, a neutral and skilled expert mediator can guide them through every required legal conversation. 

Contrary to popular belief, mediation is not reserved for couples who agree on everything. Mediation offers a supportive, structured space for all couples, especially those who wish to reclaim their power and move forward intentionally. With compassionate guidance from a seasoned family law professional, you will be supported through every required legal conversation and offered creative, customized solutions that reflect the unique dynamics of your relationship.









BOOK RELEASE!!!
"Shine, Soul, SHINE!" is a loving companion for the journey through divorce and into the light.

Born from years of guiding souls through one of life’s most challenging transitions, Shine, Soul SHINE! is Jen Mitchell Love's heartfelt offering to those ready to reclaim their light. This book is more than words on a page—it is a sacred guide, a soft place to land, and a spark of hope for anyone navigating the darkness of divorce.

With compassion, spiritual wisdom, and practical tools, Jen walks alongside readers as they move from heartbreak to healing, from confusion to clarity, and from survival to soul-deep empowerment. Every chapter is infused with light, love, and the reminder that your soul was made to shine—even here, even now.

Whether you are just beginning the process or finding your way forward after your divorce is over, this book is a beautiful invitation to rise, rebuild, remember who you truly are, and to SHINE YOUR LIGHT BRIGHT!

A New Way Forward

Begin Again with Solace

Solace understands that when romantic love ends, a new kind of relationship must be created. Especially when children are involved. Through guided conversations and compassionate facilitation, we help couples move into this new relationship space, honoring each other as co- parents and as individuals on their own healing paths.

Not all marriages are meant to last forever, some are meant to last as long as they do. At Solace, we believe that every person who enters your life does so for a reason. They arrive exactly when they are meant to, exactly as they are meant to, offering you lessons and growth that move you forward in your journey. When you can shift your perspective from loss to gratitude, you begin to see your relationships as sacred chapters in your journey of becoming who you are meant to be.
Solace helps you make that shift. We guide you to honor the time you shared, to recognize the beauty and the challenges, and to thank your former partner for walking beside you on that part of your path.

And then... we help you release...

Release the emotional weight.
Release the pain and the blame.
Release the energetic ties that keep you bound to a version of yourself that no longer serves your highest and greatest expression.

The Solace proprietary process supports you in stepping out of the muck and into a space of clarity and truth. Through mindful mediation, intentional conversations, and emotional awareness, we help you let go of what is no longer aligned so you can begin again... free, empowered, and fully present.

This is your opportunity to transform endings into beginnings. This is where your new life begins. Because when you feel your way through divorce, you find your way home to yourself.


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Divorce & separation mediation 

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FAMILY & INDIVIDUAL LINEAGE HEALING

GUIDED 1:1 Divorce support

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private 1:1 DIVORCE
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SOLACE IS HERE for you during every phase of your changing relationships

IS SOLACE RIGHT FOR YOU?

If you are seeking a path through your changing relationship that honors your heart, your children, and your personal growth, Solace is here to guide you. Whether you are feeling uncertain, overwhelmed, or simply ready to do things differently, Solace offers a mindful and respectful alternative to the courtroom litigation setting.

If you value peace over conflict, clarity over chaos, and healing over destruction, and if you are ready to shift your relationship space with compassion and intention, then Solace is the right path for you.

You do not need to have it all figured out. You just need the courage to begin. We will walk with you from there.

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-RM

Jen is a wonderful human and that matters when you are going through one of the most difficult times in your life.  In addition to being a good human she is brilliant and understands the law and helps you decide what is fair and equitable for your family.  Mediation and divorce can bring out so many of our worst parts and Jen handles it all with positivity and so much hope for your future.  She is hope- a light in the darkness, in my deepest despair she carried the hope for us.  I can’t think of a better guide to help you mediate amicably with your kids' best interest at the heart of every decision you make.   

-KP

Jen was great in making us feel like it would not be overwhelming and that everything would turn out okay. She was also an excellent mediator when it was needed, such as when we were working out our maintenance agreement.  

JESS K.

I noticed Solace Divorce Mediation on the mom's e-mail page of Facebook and a couple of people I knew liked their page, so I read some more on the website. I was hoping that we did not have to go through all of the difficult stages again, but we did not need to do it. Jen did a great job keeping the conversation at a higher level, making sure we understood all of the legal requirements and that we were being fair in our discussions and decisions. I appreciated the longer meetings, which allowed for ease and efficiency in tasks to be completed. I appreciated the ease that Jen had with the court system and her knowledge of the judges. At my most tense, the day of the divorce through Zoom (because of Covid-19) and my inability to get onto the call, Jen smoothed over the difficulties with the connection and the judge and the divorce proceeded. Afterward, she was supportive and consoling. I consider myself down to earth and appreciated many of the recommendations, plant and box offered