Welcome to Solace University

Solace University was created to provide you with the resources to take control of your divorce and control of your life, and provides:

* Divorce Education
* Tools & Resources for Healing & Co Parenting
* Healing Retreat Offerings

Divorce can feel overwhelming, stressful, lonely, and scary. That is why we created a trusted space where you will find everything you need to move forward with confidence and clarity.

You will Find the "Divorce with Love" Master Class, a Step-by-Step Divorce Education Course that Demystifies the Legal Process.

The "Divorce Mirror Exercise" guides you through a six-step process to understand the reasons your spouse is triggering you and to help you release the attachment to that space.

Healing Tools and Co-Parenting Resources that Protect Your Children's Well-Being and Help You Rebuild Your Life.

Healing Retreat Offerings focused on couples struggling in marriage; people going through divorce; and virtual divorce mediation retreats.

Divorce Differently. Divorce with Empowerment. Divorce with Love.

The Six-Step Divorce Mirror Exercise: The Soul Contract of Marriage Divorce is not a failure of love, it is a powerful catalyst for profound personal transformation.

In this lesson, you are invited to view your marriage and divorce through a soul-level lens, recognizing your spouse as a sacred mirror who has walked beside you to reveal the very lessons your soul came into this lifetime to learn. Every marriage is a soul contract. And as you transition from the marriage relationship into a new space of relationships, whether as co-parents, friends, or separate individuals, your spouse remains the one person uniquely positioned to reflect back your deepest growth edges.

During divorce, these reflections often feel uncomfortable, charged, or painful, yet they are rich with wisdom. What your spouse is mirroring to you in this season is not random. These reflections illuminate deeply held beliefs, patterns, and attachments, many of them ancestral, that you have been carrying, often unconsciously. Divorce brings these beliefs to the surface so they can finally be seen, understood, and released.

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